Friday, February 6, 2009

Dating Tips for Women - Beat the Valentine’s Day Blues

Here are some dating tips for women who have not yet attracted a man who showers them with gifts - ward off those Valentine's Day blues.

Some may say that it is all about marketing and not just about love and to some extent we can hardly disagree, because after Christmas, Valentine's Day is purported to be the largest card giving occasion in the world! Some will even buy a Valentine's Day card or gift for their pet! But what about you, will you be thought of and remembered this Valentine's Day?

Even with the knowledge of the commercialization of Valentine's Day, let’s face it…it feels great to receive a great big bunch of flowers from your Valentine! It feels even better if you receive them via courier at your workplace so all your colleagues know about it. And carrying home your Valentine booty you can almost hear the thoughts of those around you, (other women especially) saying “Wow! isn’t she lucky, I wish someone remembered me this Valentine’s Day”.

In fact, it is because of the commercialization of the occasion of Valentine's Day that so many women will spend the week or even month running up to it filled with depression and self doubt wondering why they are still alone and why they have not attracted a man yet. Almost certain in the knowledge that this year, once again they will probably not receive Valentine's Day roses, chocolates, a card or any other type of token to make them feel special.

Well, that is no good is it? Every year Valentines Day will come and go and if you are one who suffers from the Valentine’s Day blues it is time for you to take control of your own destiny.

4 Dating Tips for Women that will turn Those Valentine's Day Blues Around:

Tip #1: Recognize how special YOU are and buy yourself flowers or a gift

One of the best things about buying yourself a gift is that you always get what you want, because no-one knows better than you what you really want. It may not be the perfect solution, but treating yourself the way you wish to be treated is a great start. Just think about the message it sends out to the Universe? If you are one who desires red roses, a box of chocolates and a bottle of wine, spoil yourself. Make it your yearly ritual until you do attract a man who will surprise you with those gifts and better still, when you do meet that special someone why not continue with your ritual? That way even if he is not much of a romantic, he will soon get the hint!

Tip #2: Exchange gifts, cards or flowers with one of your single friends

Don’t be shy! There are plenty of singles out there who will feel just as unloved and lonely this Valentine's Day as you may be feeling. It is just a day like any other, but the media hype certainly has a way of making you feel that you are missing out on something, so team up with a friend and send each other something special.

When I was in my teens one of my male friends and I used to send each other an anonymous card and gift every Valentine's Day. Some years I received plenty of cards, but on other occasions I did not and yet I always felt special because of that one ‘anonymous’ gift!

Tip #3: “Be my Valentine”

Perhaps you are already registered with one or more online dating sites, but if not it is quick and easy to become a member and put up your profile. There are millions of single men out there also looking for that someone special and who knows! you could just end up attracting your very own Mr. Right.

Headline your profile with an invitation similar to the one above: “Be my Valentine” and you will more than likely get several offers for a Valentines dinner date.

Internet dating tops the list of ways to attract a man, so here are a few suggestions for sites where you can sign up for a free trial and start attracting a man today!

Yahoo! Personals

Tip #4: Place a Cosmic Order

Almost everyone these days has heard something on the benefits of positive thinking, but have you heard about The Cosmic Ordering Service yet? If not, do yourself a favor and grab your very own copy of the fabulous book by Barbel Mohr today. It is definitely one of my all time favorites. A simple step-by-step guide on how to place orders for what you desire directly with the Universe. This stuff is very powerful and effective even if you don't totally believe in it. Use the techniques described in this book to attract a man (or even your dream date) and while you're about it why not place orders for all the other things you desire too! Click here to find out more.

I wish you all the very best in your quest. Happy Valentine's Day!

“Up from the ashes grow the roses of success!” ~ Chitty Chitty Bang Bang


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